Friday, July 27th, 2018
Last Call for Summer of Love 2018
August is almost here! This summer has flown by...children are already prepping to go back to school and Labor Day is around the corner. Before you know it Halloween, Thanksgiving, Chanukah, and Christmas will be here. Yes, the holidays will be upon us in the blink of an eye. No one likes having Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner alone. Right? Time moves fast so lets plan ahead for a wonderful end to 2018.
We plan our future so diligently regarding our finances, our career, and our health, or at least we should be planning. Do you plan for your love life as well? Most of us do not. Maybe that is why the divorce rate is so high. If you are the type that leaves your love life to chance, you are playing a risky game...it’s time to stop rolling the dice, so your next true love will be the greatest love of all. For those of you who are single and read this column regularly, or are newly single, you should take this "time out" to think about the next love of your life. If you know you don't want to be alone (and who does?!), then you should position yourself to be around the right types of "single people.”
It is not at all uncommon to settle for the first man or woman that comes along in an effort to avoid being alone. Don't let "loneliness avoidance" be your motivation. Instead, be motivated by finding the right match for you. In essence, your paradigm will shift, and you will be on the right track for finding a healthy relationship which should become your new highest motivator.
Go after your heart’s desire, just like you'd go after anything else you want...that great business deal or that great car you have had your eye on. Whatever drives you--add in a healthy loving relationship.
You've probably heard it over and over from your friends, family, and work associates that it’s time to find your special man or woman, especially if they know that you want to be in a relationship. Watching TV alone on the weekends or being the third or fifth or seventh wheel at a party gets old really fast. Not to mention--it's just not necessary. There are solutions --right in front of you.
Being single isn't easy and hopefully, it’s only a temporary situation for you. So, be smart. Consider your “singledom” as a time of self-growth, an awakening to life and finding happiness and love that lies within so that you can move on to sharing your love with someone else. If you are reading this article you are ready to meet new people, or you know someone who does. Try doing some things spontaneously ...something fun...out of the ordinary where someone somewhere will notice you. Perhaps join the hottest dating and events club in Florida?
No matter what you decide to do with your "Love Life Plan", do make one. In addition, please be persistent and positive. Visualize a loving relationship and you will have one soon. It's up to you. It's in your hands.. Don't stop believing!
We have called in a full staff tomorrow, by demand. Ready. Set. Go. Call today and make your appointment to meet THE Florida Matchmakers this week and we can get you dating!
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Kelly Leary, Founder and President of Revolution Dating has a master’s degree in psychology and 27 successful years in the dating industry. A top matchmaker, now known as THE Florida Matchmaker, she has been profiled by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, The South Florida Business Journal, and numerous other media outlets.