The Singles Scene Column© February 2019
It's Valen-TIME for Florida Singles!
By: Kelly Leary, M.S., Founder of Revolution Dating
Happy Valentine’s Day in advance to our readers, clients, and couples. Valentine’s Day is a day to look forward to for many people but for some, it is an opportunity to reflect, reset, and resume your romantic dreams. I am happy to announce that for the first year in history, relationship and dating goals equaled weight-loss and health goals as a top New Year’s Resolution for 2019. Television, magazines, and people are overflowing with wild and often scary stories of what can happen when you date online. If you enjoy a good series on T.V., catch Dirty John (aired in January 2019 and is now trending). You can look for it "On Demand" on the Bravo network. It is a horrific story about a couple who met online on the site Our Time. It is a real-life story and it epitomizes what can happen when you meet people via online dating. It is something to watch and it is real. Our phones ring off the hook with stories about the pitfalls of online dating. People of all ages are shying away from living a life (or lie) online and they are opting for dating the old-fashioned way -- by meeting via introduction through a friend. The problem here is always the same: "my friends don't know anyone," or "they are too busy with their own lives," or "my friends are not experts." This is why people are embracing the thought of a matchmaker now more than ever before in my 28 years of practice. The word "matchmaker" is now a household term -- like doctor or dentist. What is old is new again and as the saying goes in the famous Broadway musical/movie Fiddler on the Roof: "Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match, find me a find, catch me a catch" appears to be another big quote in 2019.
Hence, like Santa and his elves in December, my Cupids and I won't be getting much rest this February, but we are happy to say, it's for a good cause! Count on us to renew your lease on love and introduce you to your person in honor of Valentine's Day. The time is now. All the stars are lining up and guiding you to the next level. So do level up and rub elbows with the best in the business. We are here for you--but we can’t do it alone. You need to do your part also and get started. Our clients are treated like gold from the moment they walk through our doors. This is an exciting time of the year to begin your own love revolution.
Representing LOVE is an honor that my team and I do not take lightly. Even if you feel you are "tough to match," we can help. No challenge is too big or too small when you collaborate with the pros. Last year, we celebrated more marriages and engagements than I can count and this year the predictions look even higher. People are weary of being disconnected in an over techy world. Social skills are on the decline and heartache is on the rise. People are tired of online dating, swiping, and lost time, not to mention the Dirty John phenomenon.
These key points will be sure to tip the scales of love in your favor. Read on and make your move.
Heart️~No matter what your age, there are incredible individuals who are seeking someone just like YOU. Whether, he or she is single, divorced, or widowed (like half the adult population), "All of the good ones are not taken!" Look in the mirror! You are available, right?
Heart️~Dating is NOT a numbers game. There are powerful forces that influence dating success or failure. In a nutshell, TIMING IS EVERYTHING. If the timing is not right, it will never work. Have you heard the saying: "Right man, wrong time?" For example, a person that has just gone through a break-up and/or is in the throes of financial stress is not ready for love. Do you have any idea how many people are online dating or in bars looking for financial gains or to just simply "get over" an ex as their endgame? More and more men and women come to me to protect themselves financially and emotionally. Revolution Dating decreases the odds of such dating disasters TREMENDOUSLY!
Once upon a time, people looking for love only had to worry about dating a "player." Today, we have many more hidden agendas to worry about and this affects men just as much as women. Meeting quality single people who have "skin in the game" (like other RD clients) increase the odds of finding someone who is financially and emotionally ready for the next chapter! Sincerity is key. At Revolution Dating, the men and the women have an investment in the process and everyone is vetted.
Enrolling someone who is "relationship ready” is our goal for each new member. At the end of your first interview, my hope is to like you so much that I would introduce you to my own friend (which is how we feel about our clients). I am looking for someone that has an overall happy life, who I can feel good about representing. I don't do well with grouchy types and they don't do well dating in general, so I advise if this is you, you may not be ready for a club like ours. You may have some work to do if you carry bitterness in your heart. We want you to do well, and happy people do better on the singles scene. It is what it is. Attitude is everything. I can't say that enough.
Heart️~Bottom Line: This February, WELCOME LOVE BACK into your life. Would you lock the door if Santa was on his way to your house in December? (NO) Time to fire those dating sites and put your resources into rewarding endeavors. Let the universe know what you want -- have honest intentions -- and only then will you get what you desire. Have no fear. Fear will only stifle you. Who has time for that "F"-word? None of us are getting any younger (unfortunately).
Call now to cinch your spot in the club today. One of our BEST Florida Matchmakers will be answering your confidential phone call and that's all it takes to revive your love odds! The love in us honors the love in you today and always. The love is pouring in from our clients and couples and we are so grateful and ready to share our love with you, too. We truly are changing the way people find love one date at a time, as I set out to do 28 years ago.
It's not what you know, it’s who you know! Follow the flow of selective singles in your local area and change your luck today. I just may be the most important contact in your future. Thanks for sharing your time with me again.
#HappyValentinesDay #LoveOffLineInTwoZeroOneNine #MenMagnets #TellYourFriends
Kelly Leary© has 28 years in the dating industry and a master’s degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart News, etc. Revolution Dating members are prescreened including background checks. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive one-on-one private setups, Kelly also holds private singles events which are optional. For more information please call 561-630-XOXO (9696), 772-932-HERE (4373) or 954-420-XOXO (9696) or visit www.revolutiondating.com. *All inquiries are confidential.